Mentoring Insights from Howard Hendricks,
Iron Sharpens Iron

Benefits of having a mentor

A mentor: promotes genuine growth and change
                 is a model to follow
                 helps you efficiently reach your goals
                 plays a key role in God’s pattern for your growth
                 benefits other people in your life

                                       What to look for in a mentor

First you should honestly evaluate yourself and realize your areas of weakness and need. 
Next set goals for change and growth. Then look for a mentor with these qualifications.

• A mentor who seems to have what you need and has developed these capacities herself.
• A mentor who cultivates relationships, and is willing to give of herself to another.
• A mentor who is willing to take a chance on you and invest her time energy, emotions and trust.
• A mentor who is respected by other Christians and has a good reputation outside the church.
• A mentor who is consulted by others.
• A mentor who both talks and listens. Communication is essential and is a two way street
• A mentor whose life style is consistent with what she says she believes.
• A mentor who is able to diagnose your needs, even those you’re not aware of.
• A mentor who is concerned with your interests and wants you to succeed.

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